Excerpt from Spirituality and Sex

"Abuse, Betrayal, Drama, and Excitement"

"That which has been termed "abuse" in your society, particularly sexual abuse, stems from a Soul Contract, between two or more individuals--designed to assist them as they sustain whatever energy essence is required to complete their Journeys here. 

Were it not for the presence of these "Soul Contracts," what you think of as "abuse" could never take place.  Regardless of age, you are far more sovereign in planning and executing your life that most of you realize.  In the most expanded sense, there are no "victims."  There are only participants and volunteers, every step of the way!   This may be hard to believe, and if you like, it is okay to remain skeptical about it for as long as you need to do so.   

Most Soul Contracts are designed to take wide-open souls and cover them with scar(e) tissue, for a time, so that they can develop a "victim" mindset and enjoy a complete Limitation Vacation.  Their forgetfulness will continue until just prior to the full awakening of their Meta-Human traits and powers.  This will especially apply to those whose Spiritual Gifts demand high sensitivity and/or deep empathic connection.  Suffer now, so you can play later.  That's how things often work out.     

There are many children who enter the Earth Plane like beautiful flowers, full of love and oneness.  Their Veils are thin, and they carry a remembrance of what life was like, on the Other Side.  The environment in which they live cannot (or will not) endure such radiance, so a "hit man (or woman)" is designated to go in and "mess them up" a little bit.  As heavy feet come, and trample down these flowers, a protective covering develops around their sensitive consciousness.  They shut down, to some degree, so they don't burn out, or open fully before their appointed time.  This is not meant to be an excuse for cruelty.  We are simply telling you this as a means of harmonizing something that may have seemed random and without purpose.  

The memory of an abuse can toughen a soul, and temporarily de-activate a child's giftedness, so that more intensive identification with 3D can be attained.  Those who wear the masks of perpetrators receive even more "toughening" yet!  But it is just a memory.  Later, when the time comes to be awakened from the Limitation Dream, most of the relevance and sting of those memories will be neutralized by the remembrance of the vastness of the Multiverse, and the purity of each person's infinite power.  Eventually, the whole process will become harmonized into a single Expanded Viewpoint.  And all memories of hardship will simply be seen as something that was meant to be.

Abuses and Scars of the Soul come in all sizes, shapes, and forms.  The determination of what damage they do, or what Gifts that they bring exists entirely in the eye of the beholder.  There are those who have an ability to take the most heinous experiences and turn them into stepping stones for Multiversal Expansion.  And there are also those who can take a relatively mild trauma and turn it into a "passion pit" of depression and despair that lasts for decades.  There is no judgment in it.  How could there be?  No one can know the full extent of one's personal need for "covering" until his or her time of awakening has arrived.  

If your thoughts and attitudes are still being shaped by something that has happened in the past, there is a reason for it.  Your memories are a necessary component for who you are.  The big picture may not become apparent for many years.  Each of you are encouraged to simply trust your process.  Do not demean your current state by comparing your journey to others.  That is Separation Mindset.  In your universe, there are no "others."  There is only you and your mirrors.  What you are experiencing in First Person Consciousness is just one piece of the puzzle. You are much bigger than that.  Relax into that belief, even if you cannot fully understand it at the time.  More will be revealed, we assure you!"    

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Channeled by Daniel Jacob

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