Excerpt from Spirituality and Sex, Pt. 5
"Sexuality and Mating"
By (slowly) expanding your definition of "Sex" to encompass more of your daily interactions---giving and receiving---you bring new power and excitement to your 3D Journey. In some ways, this viewpoint warms and softens the energy of human interactions, and moves them from numbed-out sleepwalking and combat to a world of omnisexual, sensory delight. It also makes room for you to recognize the distinction between playful, exploratory "sexual activity" and MATING.
Living from the above viewpoint, Sexuality includes all points of universal contact. People do what they feel, when they feel it--and a worldwide audience gets to notice the effects that flow from those choices.
Spirituality and Sexuality involves dedicating oneself to passionate exploration, and it needs to be a dance of shared intention. When one side of the dance says "No, thank you," that answer really applies to both sides. It may not feel that way, but it's true. All expressions of interaction are automatically reciprocal, because there is only ONE of you there. Additionally, the "No" still needs to be given precedence. A "No" that is honored this time may become a "Yes" at some future time. It's all about shared space, upgraded sensitivity, and expanded love.
Sex can also take place between an individual and nature as well. In this sense, your whole world becomes your "partner," if you can allow yourself to see it. The feel of gentle rain on your face, the warmth of sand between your toes, tall grass covered with morning mist--all these (and more) can be "lovers" for those who think and feel in these expanded ways. As we said in an earlier segment, the "hyper male dominance" will tend to scoff at such gentle ecstasy, because it focuses on "in and out" intensity, followed by a return to that "emotional armoring" that has been created over the centuries.
Your admiration of those who tend to be "cool and calm" in sexual interact, is merely one half of an emotional "split" that has occurred in your collective character--creating yet another side that longs to become "hot and bothered," and awestruck by life. As you become more Multiversal in your nature, you will have the ability to toggle between these two extremes, or find any other middle ground you require to make your journey enjoyable and fine.
And now a bit about MATING. When it comes to making distinctions, we suggest that you DO make a clear distinction between the more superficial levels of contact and those that involve various types of physical penetration. When saying this, we exclude anything making contact with the mouth, since your organs of taste, touch, and smell are so much a part of your body's exploratory process. For reasons which we shall not enumerate now, vaginal and anal intercourse have become universal "hot buttons," activating and bringing forward all types of karmic and emotive material--for review, release, or to be used in THE MERGE.
Physical contact, in these ways, offers the nearest experience to Oneness that can be achieved in 3D. Therefore, THEY MEAN SOMETHING, and cannot be entered into lightly, lest you suffer the consequences (both internal or external). You can try to shield yourself, make light of it, or deny the effects, and it doesn't down step the connection one iota. As we shall explain later, lack of regard for this is at the root of creating what many of you call "Sexually Transmitted Disease." If you open a Portal, and then carelessly abandon it, many uncomfortable changes tend to occur. For more information on that, click HERE.
Having said all this, we will add that a complete merge does not always require a life-long marriage commitment in order to be meaningful. An entire Mating Cycle can be completed in one afternoon, if that is what your Soul Contracts have arranged. We simply remind you that such intimacy requires respect, and a certain sense of awe, regarding the lifelong connections that are formed. What you share in these deep embraces will stay with you for a long, long time. Unfortunately, up to this point, you have had to learn this in a negative way--through investigations involving the transmissions of STDs. But there are very positive sharings that can occur as well.
The things we are speaking here are not merely meant to validate traditional Relationship Agendas ascribed to females. Males also need commitment, in order to live happily. If you don't believe this, just take a look at the way men feel when employers use their talents, but do not appear interested in them as individuals. From that vantage point, it is quite easy to switch places with the female, and see what being "used" feels like.
Though each situation varies, according to personality and life purpose, we have identified three important commitments that can be made, to maximize success, during these current energy infusions. They apply equally to both males and females. Those who lapse in faithfulness to these THREE COMMITMENTS will eventually find themselves frustrated and confused. If you seek to define your sense of self by using another person, a job, a bank account, or the accumulation of personal possessions--you will find your life getting seriously hung up until you can LET GO, and move into The Flow.
Traditional ways of "hooking up" in society are beginning to fall apart. We described this in detail in our transmission "2004: Families of the Heart." Modern marriage concepts emphasize security, fidelity, honesty, and stability. Those are excellent qualities, but they must come from WITHIN, not from some binding promise that two people made 5, 10, or 20 years ago. Each day, each moment, each HOUR.......your lives are changing, changing, changing. It's beginning to go so fast that life has become a blur. Admit that, and accordingly....... and things will go much easier for you.
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Channeled by Daniel Jacob
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