Part II Part 1 can be accessed

DURING A TELECLASS, gathered together around the topic of Spirituality and Sex, The Reconnections told our group:

"In days past, your explorations into the above two topics have usually seemed quite separate in their nature and essence. In other words, a person is either inquiring into "Spirit" or he is exploring "Sex." Bringing the two together, within the prevailing political climate, has either felt quite risky, or it has tended to be interminably dull."

For those of you who haven't encountered verbal channeling before, my process involves a translation of energetic tones, coming onto the planet from beyond this current physical reality, and down-stepping them into words and phrases that can be easily absorbed and understood by those who are in a process of spiritual awakening. I do the work now, so that others can witness the process, and be encouraged to utilize it themselves, in whatever way seems appropriate and comfortable.

From previous transmissions, the Guides went on to recall these words for us:

"Granted, there has always been strong religious emphases placed upon the holiness and beauty of sex in marriage, and the blessing that comes with a house that is filled with children. But the rest of the energy, sourced within your sexual nature (the sensorial and erotic aspects) has oft been relegated either to the subconscious, or to houses of "ill repute" - presided over by those who are openly reviled by members of "decent society" in the light of day - yet earnestly sought after when sunlight fades into a twilight of secret desire.
What people are saying they've been doing, sexually, does not always match what they are doing. And even when it does, there is often a divergence between what folks are experiencing and what they long to be experiencing. The evidence for this is everywhere - in your television, movies, print media, and even in lively conversations at the office or factory. You are fixated.... OBSEX-ED (if you will), and many of you do not even realize it, or acknowledge it. Therefore, nature must sometimes take up that task, bringing forth rumblings from the Earth that correspond to dark rumblings going on inside many of you."

Humankind now stands at a crossroads. We can either look inside ourselves, honestly - taking a healthy inventory at what is actually there - or we can continue to project our "demons" outside ourselves, to be picked up by forces of nature or the innocent minds and hearts of our awakening children. Many young people have come to Earth at this time to be mirrors for humanity, and teachers of a New Paradigm¹ that is unfolding all around us.

As Indigo Healer Jason Andrews puts it:

"Star Kids or Indigos are here to teach, not to save. I am not here to change the course of your history but purely to help, and only if that help is asked for. The Star Kids are a reality. Get used to it. Yet you still judge them by your standards. You don't understand yet that just because some of them are extremely young - like three or four of your years - and have no schooling and can't read or write, they can still teach you. They are not coming from the standpoint of a mere child. They are much more."

The willingness of young people to explore Spirituality and Sexuality with great passion and fervor, was made quite apparent in the 1960s, beginning with a "Free Love" Movement, that was followed by a "Saturday Night Fever" in the 1970s (Studio 54 and the Disco Craze), which was suppressed again by a conservative backlash in the 1980s. That era also signaled a time of great remembrance, when various individuals began to recall buried memories of childhood abuse, especially sexual abuse, and initiated self-help groups to deal with the feelings that arose from those memories.

The gathering momentum of the A.I.D.S. Epidemic suddenly put a whole new face on human sexuality at this time in history. Whereas our former experience with STD's (Sexually Transmitted Diseases) involved discomfort and inconvenience, but little more, the arrival of A.I.D.S. introduced the concept that indiscriminate or careless sexual union could actually kill a person. That was a shock for humanity, indeed! Many there were who tried to download the subject with religious bias and moral manipulation (claiming that A.I.D.S. was a punishment from God, a penalty incurred for indulging in promiscuous and/or homosexual activity). Of course, this argument quickly fell apart when women and newborn children began dying from the disease as well.

To be sure, Sex is freeing. But it is not free. As we will see, later in this series, there are forms of sexuality which are intended to open a person up, and there are forms of expression that are meant to bind souls together, so that certain alchemical changes can be accomplished. The idea that wearing a little piece of latex during intercourse can protect a person from the intensity and far-reaching implications of sexual union is as absurd as the belief that abstinence is the best cure for dealing with the unfoldment of adolescent urges.

We'll speak more about all this in due time. An unbiased spiritual perspective, which is not bogged down in masculine-dominant religious or social agenda, can give incredible insight to the study of Venereal Disease and its effects on the future of humankind. For now, though, it seems fitting to explore in more depth the topic of Childhood Sexuality, since it is very much in the news today.

Children and Sexuality
Earlier in these writings, the Reconnections began commenting on the innate sexual nature of children, including infants and pre-adolescents. This brought up a huge reaction from many readers who wrote in to condemn the pandemic of molestation of children by adults - most recently brought to the public eye by charges brought against people such as Michael Jackson.

The original tones of the Reconnections message, which caused the reaction, involved statements such as this:

"The appearance of a 'Child Icon,' within a physical Game Format, signifies a return of INNOCENCE for whatever Game is already in motion. Innocence (as a symbol) signifies an attempt by one or more participants to build an atmosphere of openness with each other, and the rest of life. It is not always synonymous with naivety, however. Innocence, as we apply the word here, speaks more to the idea of living life in an unforced, natural, and unfeigned way."

They went on to speak about the innately "sexual nature" of an infant's first relationship interactions with parents and siblings. When they use the term "sex", the Reconnections speak in the most basic way, referring to the dance between masculine energy (active, initiative, mental) and feminine energy (passive/responsive/emotional). In other words, they are speaking about the "give and take" that is inherent in all life. As we said in article one of this series, Sexuality is far more than just a physical act. Therefore, people can be (and often are) sexual with each other and never once remove an article of clothing or ponder the idea of putting tab "a" into slot "b" at all.

The Guides' discussions continued:

"You will notice that we place a lot of emphasis on children as we are creating the link between spirituality and sexuality. That is because children do "sex" better than anybody! They are a product of sex, one of its major purposes! Children are always toggling between the two poles of "action and passivity." They are always ready to receive, but they frequently enjoy giving as well. When they give, it is usually because they want to, not because it is expected of them.

Perhaps the answer to the age-old debate on Child Sexuality is found in the meaning that sex carries at each stage of life. We have pointed out that a child's first sexual experience is formed and fashioned in the dance of energies between himself and his family. Even his relationship to siblings plays a part in that. When infancy turns to childhood, each child's focus of sexual exploration shifts right along with it. Usually, by the time each stage of growth is completed, a child has discovered genitals and other interesting body parts, and has learned the joys of self-exploration and stimulation.
Because some parents hold fast to the idea that their little cherubs are sexless, siblings are often bathed together and allowed to sleep in the same space. Self-stimulation can expand to experiences of mutual exploration and masturbation, bringing a whole new spectrum of awareness to the fore. This awareness doesn't just play itself out with touching or caressing. It also affects issues involving sibling rivalry, personality variance, and the sharing of toys.

The very heart of our conversation here is focused on inviting adults to be more like children in their experience of sexuality, rather than enlisting children to be more like adults."

With the inclusion of the last sentence, one might expect to be able to diffuse any implication that the Guides are encouraging adults to sexually initiate or molest young children, but that did not turn out to be the case. It seems that this topic is so hot right now that the mere mention of children and sexuality is enough to send some people into orbit - in many cases, to bring forward a full-on abreaction² of their own childhood sexual traumas. This resulted in some powerful e-mails, some of which hammered me personally, because I consented to give voice to these offensive ideas.

In Part 3 of the Series [coming next month] the Guides addressed this issue further. After all, we never know what's needed to adequately cover a subject until we get into it, do we? They shared:

"If any of you are feeling disturbed about the connection we are building, between children and sex, it is probably because humanity has placed a corona of honor around that time in your lives when things were simple, and everything was about laughter, play, and sweet innocence. Some of you may feel that those times were all too short in duration (so do we!), or worse, they never really came around for you at all.
Our purpose for offering this series of transmissions is not to encourage adults to have sex with children. Rather, we are suggesting that you return to the beauty of having sex AS children... and see where that takes you. It is possible, you know, regardless of age. Being an adult seems very much the art of putting on masks and facades, convincing yourself and society that you are: (a) worthy of their trust, and (b) able to live among them in a thoughtful and responsible way. All the while, you are still grappling with the same fears, dreams, and repressed desires - left over from when you stood, steadying yourself at your father's knee."

It was just the other day that the Reconnections came through to add yet another key insight to the picture. This return to child-like sensitivity, this renewal of love for our own bodies (just as they are) restores our sense of awe and curiosity about what things feel like, taste like, smell like, etc. This attitude helps many adults get beyond their guilt and shame issues, and break free from self-made prisons of doubt and loneliness.

With our continued expansion into the Aquarian Age, we understand that the art of lovemaking is ALL about children. Either we use our sexual powers to create them, physically, or we learn to BECOME a child again, nestled safely in a lover's arms. The over-emphasis on sexual ACTS and moral restraints must surely diminish, as personal authenticity and love increases. It is impossible to fall into "sin" (or obsession about same) when one comes from a place of genuine love. Love is the antidote for sin and suffering.

As always, I am very interested in hearing your views on these subjects. I may not be able to respond to everyone, in detail--but I read every concept, and they do help us greatly in our research, as this fascinating topic continues to unfold.

Next segment, we'll be talking about the The Reconnections' perspective on how to release the emotional scarring that many people continue to carry about sex, long after chronological childhood is over. Until then, have a great month!

¹New Paradigm: A worldwide infusion of energy essence which grows out two primary concepts: Universal Oneness and Multidimensionality. It is a movement from the Piscean Age (where we became fishers of men) to the Aquarian Age, which emphasizes freeing up of that which has been contained or held captive (i.e. by rules, laws, or traditions). It is the advent of true FREEDOM and the Age of Conscious Choice.

²Abreaction: A sensory review (a reliving) of past experience, causing a spontaneous release of pent-up emotion.

Part II Part 1 can be accessed here B Y D A N I E L J A C O B