WE
WILL CONCLUDE this series for now, since much of what has
been said needs time for integration. There is more to say. There
always will be. This is a powerful topic, and it always seems to be
in motion. I look forward to picking it up again at some future
time.
As the
worldwide reconnection to oneness continues, more and more people
are experiencing an inner intensity of experience that can make
sustained intimate contact with others difficult. When the
power centers of
human personality begin to open, there are all kinds of
de-stabilizing effects that can occur. I cover these, in detail, in
my series on Global Acceleration
Syndrome, which is a non-medical
"diagnosis"
that can be applied to certain groupings of physical symptoms when
no other medical explanation seems to stick.
Awakening
to one's multidimensional self can, for a time, take the place of
exploring intimacy in the "outside world." Many people go inward,
leaving mates and friends wondering what's happened to them. It
takes awhile to integrate the knowledge that "inside and outside"
are simply two sides of the same coin. We're ALL ONE, and each
aspect that moves to the forefront in our consciousness is a
fragment of that One. Some people's inner lives are so rich that
they have little desire to fraternize with folks in 3D. Others have
such a void within that they dare not spend much time alone at all -
opting to move from friend to friend, lover to lover, in hopes that
their void will be filled.
Sex as Alchemy
Once the "inside/outside" dichotomy is solved, and people begin to
grasp the myriad of possibilities that exist, both within and
without, the experience of living takes on a whole new form. We stop
qualifying things in life as "real" or "imagined." Instead, we
understand that, in the multiverse, everything is REAL - everything
has a universe in which it is embodied and explored.
Exploring
certain energies requires more density than exploring others. Some
topics can be covered with just a thought, or a fleeting desire.
Others must be fully manifest and acted out, step by step, in order
to complete themselves in our soul's evolution. As consciousness
grows, we each begin to grasp how many levels of self there are -
how many scenarios are playing out, in any given moment, within the
multidimensional self.
An
ALCHEMIST is a
scientist who specializes in the study and practice of physical
transformation. In the olden days, the term dealt with the art of
transmuting base metals into gold. That was the "official"
definition of alchemy, as it was viewed by the church and state.
Those who practice it, however, realize that its implications go
much deeper. Not only are we talking about physical and elemental
change, but we are also dealing with spiritual transformation as
well.
The
Spirituality and Sex interface, as it is manifesting today, is very
much like an alchemist's lab. There is a mixing and mingling of
inner and outer elements (personalities, essences, flavors, and
textures) that have the power to turn everyday activity into pure
magic. We've already discussed the sexuality of children, to some
degree - a sexual profile which may or may not involve sexual acts,
per se, but is filled with playfulness, curiosity, and willingness
to try new things.
The
alchemy of sex is very much like this. It's not so much what a
person does, as how he or she does it. We've also discussed that
society's emphasis on form and function in sexual connection often
eclipses an inclusion of feeling, at many levels of human contact.
In some people's lives, acting out roles becomes more important than
acknowledging and riding waves of passion and personal expansion.
It is up
to the individual to decide how much variety and intensity he or she
can stand. Some people are so sensitive that a simple glance or a
focused thought can send them reeling with spiritual/sexual
resonance and inner connection. They can, literally, make love
across a crowded room - on many levels of consciousness. Others
require more density of contact - requiring days, weeks, or years to
complete their integration of these elements.
In the Energy, In the Moment
In their transmission entitled
"Relationships: A Time
for Healing," The Reconnections have the following commentary to
make on these subjects:
All
relationships can be seen as "flashcards," designed for testing
and retesting yourselves concerning one crucial issue: Do you
trust yourself, or not? Whether or not an individual or situation
under consideration is right or wrong for you is truly irrelevant
in the light of this crucial, continual query.
The
questions of "How do I find the right mate?" or "Which job best
suits me?" are no longer relevant, once a person has understood
the basic operation of energy attraction and repulsion. Under the
watchful guidance of honest, unbridled, organic knowingness - an
individual will automatically find those situations that match his
need for personal development. It's natural, it's wholesome, and
it operates from its own kind of logic.
DESIRE
is the activation key, placing you securely into the driver's seat
of your Multidimensional Vehicle. Lose touch with your desire,
your inner passion, and the vehicle skids right into a ditch. To
be sure, it will take time for society to begin adapting to
patterns of inner guidance, rather than blind adherence to
traditions, or social mores. Nevertheless, it must be done. You
all must begin to understand that inner motivation is both
reflective and reciprocal. If you don't accurately own your inner
feelings in the presence of others, how will they get an accurate
picture of their own reflection in the pool of Oneness?
The
principles that we share with you now are high ones, indeed. The
pitch of your reality is only now reaching a sufficient tone to
begin integrating these "new" viewpoints. However, you must be
patient with yourself. Take it one step at a time. You can expect
to weave, in and out, between Oneness and Separation, for some
time to come. Both viewpoints are valid. However, each exists at a
different "speed" in the vibratory spectrum.
We
like to refer to this transformation process as THE DANCE.
Acceptance is the heart, and the art of this process. You must
learn to see the perfection in everything and everyone around you.
In this way, you will ultimately learn to love yourself. In a
holistic sense, the word "perfection" does not refer to some
specified list of "mandatory" traits or characteristics. Neither
does it represent some unattainable ideal about how a person
should feel or behave. Rather, it stands for COMPLETION. When you
begin to embrace the infinite styles, types, kinds, and
classifications for ALL THAT IS - and you become willing to own
them all, AS SELF - then your anxious, critical minds will begin
to relax. Then, the strangle hold they've had upon you will begin
to be released.
[snip]
The various
social mores that have always been designed to control and
manipulate romantic and sexual connections, including child-bearing,
are more focused upon the inheritance of physical property, than on
genuine foundations for love. The creation of "marriage" rituals,
and all the social and religious regulations that have been
downloaded into them, allow ancestors and governmental agencies to
properly legislate control over lands, houses, and physical relics
as they are passed to family members when parents or grandparents
die.
In some
situations, marriages are arranged by the families involved, and not
by those who actually participate in them.
This
is done so that precious heirlooms and property can be distributed
logically and in orderly fashion between one generation and another.
So be it. We are not here to interrupt that which has worked for
centuries.
Yet -
while all this is going on, within the depths of our collective
being - there are memories and connections being stirred, awakenings
and remembrances, coming and going through "chance" encounters, or
other such intersections between desire and opportunity. When these
occur, there have always been those who find themselves entering
into (seemingly) illicit relationships, which are truly genuine and
beautiful - though operating entirely outside the loop of societal
regulation and tradition.
Invoking,
if need be, tirades of disapproval and pain within those who learn
about them - unspeakable horror, in the minds of some -
these dances continue
as they form the very heart of spiritual/sexual integration. They
keep alive the very roots of true love that have spread, throughout
the generations, across your planet! This, too, is all part of
sexual alchemy.
Arnold
Schopenhauer, 17th Century Philosopher, had this to say about
humanity's search for truth:
All
truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed.
Second, it is violently opposed. And third, it is accepted as
self-evident.
Today's
vibrant Spirituality and Sex interface includes everything from the
simple affection of an innocent child, playing in the garden - to
the heroism of Joan of Arc, being burned at the stake. It affects
people! And they, in turn, take steps to affect us back.
Agony,
ecstasy, tragedy, and all the levels in-between! That is what we're
speaking about, as we move into these next stages of evolution for
our planet and for our individual souls. It won't be easy, nor will
it be quick. But, rest assured, the energy produced will be
incredible, so long as we don't try to control or manipulate it at
the ego levels.
In some
situations, the entire purpose of spiritual and sexual interaction
is simply for one "side" of an interaction to say to another: "I
want to be close to you." In many ways, the very ACT of doing so is
the whole extent of the interaction. What happens after that may be
totally irrelevant.
The
guides urge us to be clear, yet gentle, and to be loving, as if we
are dealing with our very own heart! (We are.)
Each of
us, like Prince Charming is kissing our "other" awake during this
time of planetary transformation. Yet, the principle of "monogamy"
is also in play. There is only ONE, and there always has been only
ONE. That ONE may have many faces, or its face may remain the same.
The
Reconnections continue, as they describe the internal nature of our
Spirituality and Sex interface:
Androgyny is your natural state. Any statement of sexual
preference constitutes a wall of focused separation that has been
set up, in order to allow for certain life experiences, while
filtering out others. Some people NEED to experience relationship
in these ways. It is a Game, but it is a Game they wish to play,
nonetheless, so they can learn something. There is no harm in it,
though it does exemplify the presence of a "reality box," which
limits access to experience, rather than expanding consciousness.
As we have often stated, we are not here to take things away from
you. Our purpose is to expand your options. How you use what is
offered is entirely up to you.
In
truth, all beings are OMNISEXUAL in nature, as we have shared from
the beginning of this series. You are part of everything and
everyone, unless you choose to forget about that, and believe
otherwise. Those who fight for a right to be gay, are fighting
with themselves. Those who fight against homosexual expressions
are also fighting with themselves. Your entire You-niverse is
simply a projection of your own inner dynamics, solidified and
shone forth by the projector of your mind, so you can work through
certain "issues" that are of importance within your individual
soul's evolution.
If you
are fighting for your right to be who you are, in this Now Moment,
it is because there are forces that still exist within you that
have doubts about whatever it is that has captured your curiosity.
What you are feeling/wanting in this lifetime is usually a
byproduct of what you refused to embody,
at other levels of
reality. If you want to WIN in this process, let those doubts
go! Let them go!!! Walk right past the battle lines within, and
SIMPLY BE whatever it is you are wanting to be - allowing the rest
of your world to take care of itself.
[snip]
Ah yes!
Agony and ecstasy. In days to come, a host of demons will seem to
fly out of Pandora's box. It's about time, isn't it? Many more may
also be laid to rest. That, too, is quite fitting. These are the
days of wonder. These are the days of resolution and joy. The grand
game is about to come full circle. We are all present, occupying our
place at the feast of the ages.
© 2006, Daniel Jacob
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